Well 2009 has come to a close – somedays I thought it would never end, other days I wondered where all the time went. This year has probably been the most stressful year of my life. We were showered with blessings and trials alike and hopefully have come out the other end stronger. I thought I would make a list of some of the life changes that we went through and reflect on this last year with humility and praises to God for his strength to help us get through it all.
January – Found out I was pregnant with Liam
February – Turned 31
March – Started looking for a home and job in Idaho
April – Found a home and job in Idaho
May – Moved into our first home in Nampa, Idaho. Scott Michael Watkins (my nephew) was born, so my parents and sister Melanie came to Nampa for a visit.
June – Chris’s Mom’s health started to rapidly decline due to the Multiple Myeloma
July – Drove to Salem to see Chris’s parents, his mom was doing very poorly and was not very coherent.
August – On the 16th Chris’s Dad, Larry, fell in his home and died. We drove back to Salem for the funeral. Twelve short days later his Mom, Anita, decided to join her husband in heaven and passed away also. We found out just before we were leaving on a trip to see my parents but Chris still wanted to go so we did.
September – On the 4th we were in Salem once again for Anita’s funeral. Chris’s company had been very understanding about all of his time away but we were barely scraping by on his salary so Chris decided to go back into business for himself. He quit his job on the 11th. On the 13th our sweet little baby boy, Liam, was born. My hospital stay was less than exemplary and without going into details, I will never be returning to Mercy Medical. On the 28th Brooklyn had her first birthday.
October – We went to my parents for a visit, we celebrated Melanie’s 40th birthday and my Dad blessed Liam. Chris turned 31 and had a really good month with his business – boy did we need that.
November – I spent a week at my parent’s home before Thanksgiving. I got the rest and relaxation I needed, they are very hospitable. Chris joined us for Thanksgiving (thanks to my Dad for picking him up).
December – Brooklyn finally started walking and Liam was smiling and cooing all over the place. We went to my parents again to celebrate Christmas. Got to see a lot of my family which I always look forward to, I am so incredibly blessed to have them.
With so many trials came so many blessings. There were days I honestly wondered what more the Lord would give me as a trial and I felt defeated more than once. I came up with a new saying that helped get me through, “Just because the Lord won’t give you more than you can handle doesn’t mean he won’t test your limits.” I am so lucky to have such a great family with parents and siblings I can call whenever I need help, they are very reliable and help me a lot. I am also grateful for the friends that support me too. This is not a year I will soon forget.

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